Porn addiction & betrayal recovery

YOU'VE TRIED QUITTING ALONE.
IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY.

If you're here, some part of you is ready for things to be different. That's enough to start. Freedom is real, it's closer than you think — and you don't have to find it alone.

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Austin Hamilton
I watch porn.
I want to stop.
I've tried to stop.
I can't stop.
I feel stuck.
Sound familiar? Keep reading.
Live on TikTok

IS PORN CHEATING?

Austin takes the question live — bringing strangers up one at a time to talk honestly about porn, betrayal, and what's really underneath it. People come in ready to argue and leave seeing themselves differently. It's raw, unscripted, and happening in front of thousands.

Live on TikTok several nights a week — follow @PxrnCoach for go-live alerts.

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Rethinking it in real time — a guest comes on insisting porn isn't cheating, and realizes on air she wants something different after all.

“Sexual brokenness is not primarily something to be managed — it is a story to be understood.”

JAY STRINGER · UNWANTED

WHAT CLIENTS SAY

“I tried for years to get sober on my own and couldn't. I'm almost four years clean now.”

MICHAEL

“I felt so isolated — like no other woman was experiencing the same betrayal I was. But we healed. Two kids now, our marriage is thriving.”

KRISTA

“Your group didn't save my marriage — but it gave me the courage to do what I needed for me.”

CARRIE

“You create a safe place for healing. Most of my growth was because of the group.”

CARY

“One-on-one therapy at $175 a session twice a week wasn't working. Austin's group is what actually helped.”

NICOLE

“Porn ruined my relationship with my wife. Thanks to Austin and the group we're finally doing the work and on the right path.”

RILEY

GROUP COACHING

Community and connection with men doing the same work. Judgment-free, action-oriented, confidential. Multiple weekly options.

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1-ON-1 COACHING

Tailored to you. Extreme accountability, a private place to process, and a customized action plan.

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I'M NOT A GURU.
I'M A GUY WHO GOT FREE.

“Your story matters — because what happened to you shaped how you love, cope, and hide.”

ADAM YOUNG · THE PLACE WE FIND OURSELVES

After decades stuck in pornography addiction, I did what I swore I'd never do — I cheated. It was my lowest point, and I thought my marriage was over.

Confessing took more courage than anything I'd ever done. But it was the beginning, not the end. Our marriage was restored into something I never thought possible — and since then I've helped other men and couples find the same freedom.

There was hope for me. There is hope for you.

“Healing does not come from managing our behavior. It comes from engaging our story with honesty and kindness.”

DAN ALLENDER

“Betrayal wounds deeply — but naming the truth is the first step back to solid ground.”

KATHE LOREZEL

QUESTIONS MEN ACTUALLY ASK

Is this therapy?

No — and I'll be straight with you about the difference. I'm a coach, not a licensed therapist, so this isn't clinical treatment or a diagnosis. What I do is walk with you, ask the questions most people won't, and help you build a real path forward. And if what you're carrying needs a licensed therapist, I'll tell you that and help you find one — no ego about it.

Is everything confidential?

Yes. What's said here stays here. In the groups you're known by your first name only, your camera is optional, and nobody is going to out you. Shame grows in secret and loses its power the moment it's spoken in a safe place — so my whole job is to make this safe enough for you to actually say the thing.

Do I have to be religious?

No. My faith is the ground I stand on and I won't pretend otherwise, but I'm not here to preach at you or make you believe anything to be welcome. Wherever you are with all of that, if you want to get free, there's a seat for you here.

My partner is the one struggling. Is this for me too?

Yes. If you're the one who found out, and it knocked the floor out from under you — the obsessive checking, the not sleeping, replaying every memory — that's betrayal trauma, and it's real. You're not crazy and you're not too much. There's specific support for partners walking exactly this, and you can start healing whether or not they ever change. Reach out and I'll point you to the right place.

What does it cost?

Everything current — the groups and one-on-one coaching, with real prices — lives on choosingnew.com, so you're always seeing today's numbers instead of something I forgot to update here. And I don't want money to be the reason you stay stuck. Start with a call, tell me where you're at, and we'll find a way forward that makes sense for you.

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